We found a perfect metaphor to describe what is actually happening when we both get triggered. We call it "the emotional seesaw".

So this is "whiteness"? I never knew I was that one dimensional. But you know what, I can live with that.

I have to start treating myself like I treat other people. I'm never that brutal and unforgiving to other people, so I have to stop beating myself up.

I'm on edge and I don't know why exactly. I do have some theories, but I don't have the full picture yet. Normally that would be a reason not to share...

Last year shook me to the core and made me reevaluate everything I thought was good and normal. I had to tear down my house to redo my foundation.

Learning to code was just the precursor to learn something way more valuable. Communication is key to find the real problem and be able to fix and own...

Learning to code was just the precursor to learn something way more valuable. Communication is key to find the real problem and be able to fix and own...

What does a normal person do when he or she is not happy with a product? They contact customer service and complain or ask or... I don't know, I never...

I hope children like my niece an nephew keep asking "why", despite grownups telling them to stop. I hope they will never be ashamed of their curiosity...

2019 July 15GOALSMINDSET

I set myself a goal: write at least one post each week. That doens't always work out as this blog is not my main priority, it's just one of my priorit...

2019 July 1LEARNINGMINDSET

I love quotes. Ok, not all obviously. But generally quotes have the ability to confer emotions, wisdom or both in just a few words.

I have to let go of perfection and I have to believe I will be better at things I suck at now. I'm not saying that will be easy. I know it is very har...

You will also never find what you love to do, without trying. So this is what I did for the very first time this last 1 - 1.5 year.

Why and how I run. The first and I hope also the last post I write about it. For me running is the easiest and cheapest way of working out. And I love...

Learn stuff for free on the internet? Sure, you can Google your way out of almost anything. But for me, that's where the agony starts.