Goal setting is a hot item. Everybody should have goals in their personal life, in their career and for their loved ones. Unfortunately, along the way, we all lost the (real) reason why you should goals for yourself. And with that I really mean only for yourself. Yes, your boss will give you targets to reach each year, but those aren't really goals. It's just your job. And yes, you hope your kids, spouse, family will do good, but that's not a goal, is it? That's common sense. So let's start with what I mean by goals.
With that we basically already talked about one reason why you should set goals: they will make you better. A better engineer, a better spouse, a better parent, a better tennis player, a better gamer, a better cook, a better craftsman, a better photographer, whatever you choose.
The second reason is that having a goal will motivate you. It will help you focus your energy, time and effort into that one thing (or a few) that you really want. Everything else is secondary.
For me the learning part is actually sort of the other way around. I always want to absorb new knowledge, but I just can't choose. There are so many interesting things out there. Knowing my lifetime is limited, I can only do two things:
I don't have an answer to this dilemma (yet). And I just don't know what I want or need to learn first. So I'm stuck. I want to learn, but what's most important? So I thought of a lifetime goal for me that would put everything else in perspective.
The first goal is kind of selfish, it is purely aimed at myself. This goal might sound ridiculous for everybody born 20 years earlier than me and completely feasible for everybody 20 years younger. Let me explain that.
I was born on January 14 in the year 1985, which means I will be 2 weeks shy of 115 years old when I reach my goal. Something completely foreign to someone a generation older. But, with the current medical knowledge and the exponential rise in healthcare technology, for people younger than me, getting 115 years old should be the new 80.
But why do I set such an ambitious goal that is so far away in the future? As explained earlier, for me it puts everything in perspective. I can focus everything I do for the rest of my life (or hopefully 115 is only the first bit) to this one goal. And I don't have to think of a new goal soon.
So what does this goal practically mean? First I have to figure out what I need to do and what I have to limit or even avoid to optimize my chances to reach my goal. Below are the things that I think (now) are important. I'm going to figure them out and will explore them on this blog. I know it's a lot, and I haven't written much yet, so please be patient.
All of the above plus:
If needed I would definitely consider replacing parts of me. Or adding things to make me regain lost abilities.
As stated in the mental health section in goal #1, having a purpose or finding meaning seems to an essential part of getting to 2100. So, what gives my life meaning? Where do I find fulfillment?
In general, I want to have a positive impact on the world. That sounds really vague and it is, so what gives me fulfillment? I don't have a definitive answer yet. For what I know now, I love the feeling I get when I help others. So why not set the bar high and aim for helping as many people as Facebook currently has users: 2 billion.
I have no fricking idea. I hope jodiBooks will be at least a first step. Diana and I have so many ideas, so let's see where it takes us. And how far it gets me to that 2 billion people.